![]() ![]() Eventually, this can cause you to feel frustrated, criticizing, and possessive. It can create a tunnel vision wherein the object of your jealousy gets all the attention and at the end of it, you’re left feeling hatred, insecure, and scared. When you’re filled to the brim with jealousy and envy, it can make you lose sight of what’s in front of you. Whether you agree or disagree, jealousy is a negative trait that you need to learn to avoid in life. If you have this negative personality trait, then you rely on your impulses and threaten others to assert dominance and feel superior. If you’re aggressive or tend to have hostile behavior, this personality trait might not be helping you or serving you any meaningful purpose. ![]() When we talk about negative traits and personality traits you need to avoid, we need to talk about aggression and anger. I’ve seen many people in my life use guilt as a form of emotional manipulation to get what they want and that’s a trait you need to avoid. One of the most common, (and effective) manipulation tactics that people use is guilt. ![]() This ability might feel or sound not harmful, but it can eventually take a toll on the one doing the manipulation and the one on the receiving end of it. Manipulation is a negative trait that many people (not just narcissists or emotional abusers) use to get what they want. There are people I know who judge others just to feel a sense of superiority, which again, is a trait that you need to avoid. This self-appointed judgment might make you unwilling to accept others’ opinions if you’re not careful. With time, I realized that this trait was not only harming my loved ones but also altering my perception. I’ll be the first to admit that I have been judgmental based on what I saw and without knowing the whole story. JudgmentalĪnother negative trait that we all seem to have is being judgmental. Trust me, it’s one thing to keep secrets or tell white lies to protect oneself or the people you love, but intentionally keeping others in the dark just for your means can be considered a negative trait. For such people, others are meant to play in favor of their interests. A dishonest person does not do anything favorable for anyone without strings attached. While it’s pretty clear that dishonesty is a bad trait, it can become a bad personality trait if you’re not careful. DishonestyĪnother negative personality trait I’d like to add to this list is dishonesty. ![]() Others are just meant to get what they want and nothing more. People with greed never seem to have enough of anything – food, money, experiences. If you need something, you’ll find ways to get it, even if in the process others are hurt – intentionally or unintentionally. Greed can make you feel insatiable and always leave you wanting more. GreedĪs far as negative traits go, greed is there on top as well. You tend to favor one side over the other and believe that you’re right even if there seem to be no facts backing your side. If you have this negative trait, then you assess events, situations, and people around you, quite subjectively and never objectively. Biased people are very set in their attitude and hardly seem to look at things from a different perspective. If you are biased, it can be considered a negative personality trait as well. You cling to what you believe and conform yourself to live miserably. Because of this, it hardly occurs to you that you can change your life. You believe that you’re doomed to live miserably and that everyone is out to get you.Īnytime anything goes awry, you take it as proof that you’re right and hated by all. When you have a pessimistic outlook on everything, you’re always looking for evidence that everything hates you. PessimismĪnother negative personality trait that many of us, unintentionally have, is pessimism. The moment you shed your ego, you learn to accept everyone equally and even treat everyone as important. When you are egoistic, you believe that everything you do or say should be centered around you and should make you the center of attention.Įgo can make you feel like the world revolves around you and that you are the only one who deserves to be valued and feel important. One of the most common negative traits we have is ego. Here is the list of common negative personality traits that you need to avoid in your life and develop a positive personality Common Negative Personality Traits to Avoid In any case, the first step begins with understanding and recognizing the negative personality traits we possess and how they might affect our behaviors and relationships. ![]()
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